{"id":3791,"date":"2022-09-13T20:50:09","date_gmt":"2022-09-13T20:50:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hovalo.com\/online-dating\/how-does-bumble-work\/clone-of-the-6-best-bumble-openers-pick-up-lines-for-bumble\/"},"modified":"2023-08-25T20:41:19","modified_gmt":"2023-08-25T20:41:19","slug":"shit-test-guide-what-is-how-to-pass","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/hovalo.com\/online-dating\/shit-test-guide-what-is-how-to-pass\/","title":{"rendered":"What is a shit test? Why she gives them, how to deal and avoid them like an expert"},"content":{"rendered":"
The conversation was going great. <\/p>\n
You were having fun, there was some teasing, some flirting, and you were close to arranging that date because everything was going so well\u2026<\/p>\n
Except that suddenly, she changed her behavior completely and ghosted you.<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s break it to you: that was a shit test (and you failed).<\/p>\n
Luckily, you are about to discover everything about shit tests, including what they are, why you get them, types of shit testing, and of course, how to pass them.<\/p>\n
So, get comfortable, and let\u2019s get into it.<\/p>\n
Shortcuts to skip right into what you want to know:<\/strong><\/p>\n Shortcuts to skip right into what you want to know:<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n What is a Shit Test?<\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Why do women Shit Test?<\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Types of Shit Tests<\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n How to pass her Shit Tests?<\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Avoid Shit Tests<\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n A shit test, just like the name implies, is just a test that (normally) a woman makes to a man to see if they are a good fit. <\/p>\n It can come as a statement, question, or comment.<\/p>\n Sometimes, a message from the man will trigger this subconscious response from the woman to protect herself in case you\u2019re not good for her.<\/p>\n Others, the woman will be somewhat of a bitch and keep shit testing the guy if she feels superior to him.<\/p>\n It sounds kinda rough, yes, but don\u2019t get your panties in a twist, because soon you\u2019ll learn how to pass them and avoid them<\/strong><\/em> like a champion.<\/span><\/p>\n As said before, what a woman wants is to ensure that the guy is indeed a good match for her.<\/span><\/p>\n So, a shit test will be a less friendly way to frame, evaluate, judge, or measure the character of the man and see if it fits her expectations.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n The real question is what detonates a shit test and if it\u2019s a good thing or a bad one.<\/span><\/p>\n When you have to pass a shit test, two things are crucial:<\/p>\n Identifying the type of test<\/p>\n Knowing the intensity<\/p>\n Depending on how the situation unfolded, you can find two types of intensities:<\/p>\n Teasing or hard.<\/p>\n Keep this in mind for when we reach how to pass shit tests.<\/p>\n Knowing the intensity and approaching according to that, makes the difference between success and failure.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s a small cheat sheet in the meantime with the best methods to deal with each severity of shit test.<\/p>\n Hovalo Tip:<\/span><\/strong> Become a real expert on spotting Shit Tests and their intensity by signing to <\/span>Online Dating Courses<\/span><\/a> or watch our video where we also dive deep into explaining more about tests.<\/span><\/p>\n Different situations create different shit tests.<\/p>\n The first step to successfully dealing with a test is to identify it. <\/p>\n Then, you have to know which kind it is, so you can pick the best way to deal with it and pass.<\/p>\n If you look back to this article, there were 3 main reasons why she starts shit testing.<\/p>\n Therefore, you can find 3 different types of tests:<\/p>\n <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n The moment you\u2019ve been waiting for!<\/p>\n Now you know how to identify a shit test, the different types, and their intensities.<\/p>\n It\u2019s time to learn the ways to deal with her tests and pass them like an expert dater.<\/p>\n You are now armed to identify and pass shit tests.<\/span><\/p>\n Wouldn\u2019t it be nice to skip them at all?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Yes, it would.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n For this, you have two fronts to focus on: value and congruency.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n When your value is noticeably superior to hers, she won\u2019t be shit testing you because she knows her place.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n And she might even be afraid of losing you.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n Reach this spot by building up value from your profile and keep growing it through the messages. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n This will show and remind her that you are confident, self-reliant, and charming.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n While you\u2019re making sure that she realizes how high-value you are, pay attention to the little details and what they say about you.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n If your value is up the clouds, but she finds inconsistencies, questions will come your way.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n So, when you make your profile and start texting, make sure that you\u2019re not trying to be someone entirely different and you\u2019ll be safe.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n Shit tests are a pain in the ass, no doubt about it.<\/p>\n However, that doesn\u2019t turn them into obstacles, but opportunities to create a better conversation and show the best of you.<\/p>\n Remember that communication with women isn\u2019t a straight line, so grab a handful of patience, read the situations properly, and work towards building your value even before you start talking.<\/p>\n Just like with any other skill, with a little practice, you\u2019ll be able to spot, pass, and avoid shit tests like a real champion.<\/p>\n If you want to become a real expert on dealing with shit tests, you can check out our course Online Dating Secrets<\/a> and learn in-depth how to master this part of flirting and find real life examples.<\/p>\n See you at the next one!<\/p>\n Want to text like a pro,<\/span> but you don’t know how to start?<\/strong><\/p>\n Sign up below and you will instantly get our 3 best openers<\/span><\/span> +<\/strong> Instant Mindset Changer FOR FREE<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n 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Why do women shit test?<\/h2>\n
Intensity of tests<\/h4>\n
Teasing<\/h5>\n
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Hard<\/h5>\n
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Types of tests<\/h2>\n
How to pass her shit tests<\/h2>\n
Avoid shit tests<\/h2>\n
Conclusions<\/h2>\n